Raya @ The Laikar's

Things have changed since dad left us. We remember him every single day, and Hari Raya has never been the same without him.



Although we are hurting inside, we know we have to be strong for each other. We also need to create good memories for the kids.



So, this year, we did things differently -- we cried, but we also had lots of fun.



Enjoy the video!



 

Anniversary

10 Dec was the day my parents got married. Mum and 2 of my siblings decided to spend the weekend at my place.

My sister from Kedah was in KL for holidays too, so we decided to take her out around KL. 

We planned to go somewhere else but on the day we decided to go to Pavilion shopping mall. During lunch, I saw a new Garret Popcorn shop just open in the mall. The smell got us tempted so I got some popcorn. 

From there, we went to KLCC. We hang out at the fountain area, enjoyed the view, took some photos and went back in. 

Before I got to the car, I bought some RotiBoy (yes, can't resist the smell too!)

From there, we head to my elder brother's house. 

Along the way, we realised that we unconsciously did everything Dad likes - popcorn, KLCC fountain, RotiBoy. 

He is not with us, but he is surely in us. 

Al-Fatihah to Dad. Happy Anniversary to mummy! 

Photobomb!

Just like everyone, I have a family whatsapp group where we share all sorts of updates, stories, jokes and completely unrelevant stuff. 

Very recently my auntie wished everyone good morning and I replied asking her to send us a selfie. She shared this photo instead:

This could possibly be my very first photobomb! My uncle and nephew was seated next to my auntie but they were completely blocked by me. 

That aside, I find it extremely moving for my aunt to still find this photo memorable, and worth keeping. 

Now, it has become a priceless piece for me too. Reminding me of what simple things could mean, and how blessed I am to have this much love abound me. 

Creating memories.

If we choose to sit sown and wait for something to happen, I am pretty sure we will end up with similar photos in our phones (and a whole lot of selfies!). This is because memories don't just happen by itself --they can be made. 

We have the ability to celebrate family and friends and create powerful memories so they grow with us. Doing things together sends a strong message of love -- it can be as simple as a dinner. With a little bit of effort, a weekend getaway can be pretty memorable too. 

Everyone is always busy. It can be difficult, but not impossible. Let's find time, and make memories. They live forever. 

p/s: im gonna try to make it a habit to blog about my wonderful memories. Hopefully one day i will be able to go through it and relive the moments.